Hello everyone and a Happy New Year to all my followers and readers.
I just thought I would drop by for a few minutes whilst there is calm once more. It is so quiet here today I feel the house is fast asleep – recovering from the busyness of the last few weeks.
We spent Christmas Eve delivering gifts to friends and then had an unexpected visit from my elder daughter and SIL in the evening. Unintentionally, we were late to bed and then quite late up on Christmas morning – this did not matter though as DH and I spent Christmas day on our own, through choice, as we did not relish a further trek up to North Yorkshire after having been up there on the Sunday before for the family party, and both our daughters were spending Christmas with their respective in-laws.
It was the first time ever we have been completely alone on Christmas Day but I actually enjoyed it. We had no deadlines to meet for meals, no one to entertain and it was a chance to take advantage of the quiet time after a busy month and a busy year. In fact I will make sure we have a day like this every year – perhaps not on Christmas Day but maybe at some point over Christmas. Of course it is much easier to plan a day of doing nothing when everyone else is occupied.
I had some lovely gifts from my friends and vouchers for John Lewis from our family Not so Secret Santa. Perfect. Here are a few of my favourite.
These delicate handmade wire snowdrops…
a little felted bird…
a stack of hand made soaps and some pot pourri…
two printed mugs on a matching little tray.
Last night we spent the evening with some of our dearest friends, feasting, laughing and playing games – a wonderful way to see the new year in.
So now we are in 2019 already looking back on 2018, which for me was quite a mixed year; we started the year in January with the sad loss of 3 family members and then a few months later celebrated the marriage of one and the birth of another. So like many other families it is always in a continuous state of ebb and flow.
During the last few days I have been planning and plotting and also pondering on a new focus word… but at the point of writing this has not revealed itself to me yet; but I am not in any particular hurry. My focus word last year was The Power of Small and indeed I did make small adjustments to various aspects of my life which then produced some major and unexpected changes – the most notable being leaving my job and the security that brings.
I always love this month of January it never feels bleak to me – I am eager to set new goals, think about new challenges and looking forward to what the new year may bring, even those little unexpected surprises. Of course I want it to be all good things but I know that will never be the case – I only hope that the inevitable problems when they come are not insurmountable or too traumatic that I will not be able to cope.
But for now all around me is good – my friends and family are all relatively well, we have a warm home plenty of food and I am feeling quite blessed.
A good start to the year so far.



Christmas Eve has arrived. There was still a lot of hustle and bustle in the village earlier – the last-minute dash to the Co-op and Post Office for those forgotten items; but in the main people are settling down at home now and soon calm will descend on the village again. We were out this afternoon completing my final Advent task. This is how my Advent days 19 to 24 panned out…
I had just four organic lemons to make some lemon curd – there was enough for 3 jars – one jar went to my younger daughter yesterday and another into a home made hamper for my elder daughter and of course one saved just for me for my toast tomorrow.
For each friend we chose a selection of photos some months included pictures of themselves (unseen footage) and we also found photos of places they might recognise.

With difficult presents I wrap them in tissue paper and then put them into plain craft bags that have been stamped or you could stick a Christmas picture onto the bag from an old Christmas card.
The calendars were wrapped in plain brown paper and then stamped with snow flakes.
I also keep a roll of wrapping paper when I want something just a bit special and try to tie in the colours of the paper with a tag made from …you guessed it…an old Christmas card. 

Two glass owls, 5 baubles in the shape of pine cones and a tiny red father Christmas.

But you will need to keep it a secret until Christmas Eve (and her real name too!)
Day 17 – I swapped my Advent task today to make the mince pies – after all Christmas would not be Christmas without them even though I can only eat one or two as they don’t really agree with me now. I often bake these tiny ones as they make a lovely token gift and this batch was to take in to my old workplace for my former colleagues.
The thickness didn’t affect the taste though, the pastry was ‘melt in the mouth’ with no soggy bottoms. After a dusting of icing sugar I packaged them up onto these little white trays (I collected during the year from Chocolate Mini Rolls) lined with a doyley and added a sprinkling of confetti – green metallic holly leaves.
I also took in a tray of the chocolates. Well it is Christmas.