seasons ~ hibernation over…

The end of another month that has gone like lightening for me. I feel like I went to sleep at the end of January and have woken up in March.

There is a definite feeling now when I go outdoors that everything is slowly waking up. We are much slower to rouse here than in most of the country at an elevated 700′ (the Pennine moors above us are around 1480′). Amidst this continuous rain and drizzle we have had a few dry days – not enough to go out into the garden for any length of time, but here and there I spy signs of emerging shoots and the little buds on the trees are starting to grow and unfurl. The nights are drawing out and the mornings are becoming lighter so much earlier.

And occasionally we have sunshine streaming through the sides of our blinds.

My hibernation period is definitely over, spring is here and I am raring to go.

Let the spring cleaning and clearing out begin.

Yesterday I had to wait in for a parcel so I thought it was a good idea to clean the kitchen / dining room and sweep away the cobwebs (literally!).

I used the long handled duster to reach around the the top of the walls and wiped down all the tops and fronts of the cupboards. The china cupboard gleams again after thoroughly cleaning the glass with white vinegar, the worksurfaces are clear of those bits and bobs that accumulate and even the chair legs, the lampshade and the radiator have had a wipe over.

After cleaning the floor – I am still an old fashioned down on my knees girl to wash the floor – I decided not to make a start on the insides of the cupboards as these may need a declutter and I was all out of decision making by lunchtime, but the kitchen and dining room felt fresh and clean.

I have been trying to keep my ‘3 item’ task list going and it is helping me to get some of those small, stubborn jobs completed. Often they are just little jobs that hardly take any time at all and when they are done I wonder why it has taken me so long to do them. This week I had an old clip frame to drop off at the village charity shop, two pictures to put back on the dining room wall and my pension contribution request form to complete and post to the People’s Pension. I did all three in one day.

Now all three have been given a generous tick in my planner I can choose my next three. I am not always able to set and complete them daily or even weekly as it very much depends on what the task is, but so far I have managed to keep them rolling along.

My next 3 items are:-

  • List my old pattern grading books for sale on Ebay
  • Shred the remaining old receipts
  • Finish labelling the photo box tab dividers

Originally, last month was going to be about improving our diet and fitness levels, but I decided I really needed to continue with the paperwork and budget.

February was a short month and was interupted with our holiday and then the week we were back at home was exceptionally busy. I had to travel up to mum’s for her social services assessment, have my MRI scan in Leeds, visit our new dentist to discuss the dental treatment I require and then our car broke down big time only 3 miles from home when we had two of the grandchildren in the back for a day out (the day out became a disappointing wait for the recovery vehicle to take us back home).

So not a lot of the financial overhaul got done and I find myself at the beginning of another month and there are still a number of financial things I need to address –

  • a new passport each
  • updating our wills
  • making an LPA each
  • using any remaining ISA allowance before the end of this tax year
  • making another pension contribution
  • setting the spending budget

Quite a list.

I have made a start on the pension contribution.

You might be wondering why I am making pension contributions when I am retired….I will explain. (For those of you reading from across the pond and in far away countries this will perhaps not mean very much to you).

When I retired from my job in 2018 the workplace pension scheme had only just been implemented at the company I worked for. The workplace pension is like a private pension where the employee and employer both pay a percentage of your monthly earnings into the scheme. As it had only been running for just over a year it had only accumulated the grand total of £390 on leaving work! So small I almost forgot about it. It would never have given me a pension and being such a small amount I decided to just leave it in the fund as I was able to manage adequately on the state pension.

After a year I noticed it had grown to £490 and then I found out that you are able to continue paying a maximum of £2880 a year into these funds until age 75. Of course, my employer had ceased to pay into it when I left, however, the money I have contributed myself since then is growing steadily and has become quite a nice little nest egg which I could draw on should I need it in future.

The advantage of making these contributions is that the government also contribute. If you pay in £2880, they give you £720, which makes it up to £3,600. Where else these days could you get £720 interest on £2880 worth of savings. It is one of the best decisions I have ever made and I always make sure we save as much as we can to do this each year. Knowing how much my mum’s care costs are it seems prudent to try and save towards our own future care costs, should we need them.

The down side is that you cannot just deposit this money into the fund without completing the form on the People’s Pension website and waiting for them to give the go ahead. Still for a free £720 a year it is well worth the hassle and a better return than the present interest on an ISA savings account.

Isn’t the first rule of budgeting to put money aside for savings first, then spend the rest?

Once the savings have been siphoned off, planning how to spend the monthly income wisely needs a lot of consideration. Some of the household bills we pay now are increasing year on year such as council tax, water charges, utilities, broadband and insurances – all things we need to pay and have little control over. You cannot shop around for the best council tax or water deal!

Reducing the bills can be a bit of a full time occupation these days and DH is in charge of researching the best insurance, utilities and broadband.

He does a great job. We don’t necessarily always go with the cheapest, often it is the best value and he always looks at their customer service record for problem sorting. He will ring up and haggle too if need be. Sometimes it works and we don’t have to keep swapping and changing companies just in order to pay less.

Where we can we aim to cut down on water use and heating, though this long cold winter, and the very dry summer last year has already made that difficult. We placed metallic sheets behind the radiators, used draught stoppers on the doors and have 2 water butts in the garden (but they soon ran out before we had any serious rain). Still there is always room for improvement.

After we have put some money into savings and paid the bills the residual income has to stretch to cover our food, clothes, gifts, medical and health, hobbies, leisure, travel, xmas and holidays.

Often it is a stretch, but cutting back on waste, overspending and impulse buying can save more money than just taking advantage of offers or coupons, especially if those offers are for something you hadn’t thought of buying in the first place! The internet is a very tempting place full of sales and discounts that land in your inbox and it is so easy to add on a few extra items to get free postage.

As my word for the year is restore and reset I am taking the time to overhaul our spending habits, identifying the waste and overspending and looking at what works well for us.

I have a pantry full of food, a craft room full of craft supplies, a greenhouse full of empty pots and packets of seeds and a wardrobe full of clothes all waiting to be used. I do need to take stock, reduce the waste and make better use of what we already have – so using up and turning what I already have into something usable is high on the list. Selling some unwanted items might be on the cards too.

I will no doubt be sharing more on my progress in future posts.

Thank you for reading, back soon x

seasons ~ twixmas

I love this time of year so much I invented my ‘twixmas season’ – the interval between Christmas and New Year. Although not a true season of course, I can treat it as one as it is a very defined period that we don’t have at any other time of year; the Christmas festivities are over, the hard work done and the new year is a few days away – it is a good time to stop and catch my breath, a time to reflect and review and formulate plans for the year ahead.

My Advent calendar is fully opened now and very colourful, I might make another next year. Below I just thought I would show you the delightful Christmas card that Master Freddie made and the school printed them.

During these few slow days of twixmas my new notebook is being prepared – next year’s calendar pasted in, along with a note of birthdays and a list of intentions for the year – those endless tasks of home maintenance, self maintenance and any ideas that spring to mind for revamping the house.

There will be roll-overs to put down too from last year’s list….all those tasks that didn’t even get a look in – the ones where I wonder how on earth a year can pass and so many jobs still remain outstanding. After all, I really don’t remember lying in my bed all day….I am sure I was up and about ‘doing’ all day, most days – so why has so little got done?

I have known for some time what my focus word will be for next year, well actually it is two words, something that is much needed here; twelve whole months to Restore and Reset my life, in fact both our lives as DH feels exactly the same way. After the sale of the cottage last year and both daughters moving this year, we have both felt to be wandering a bit in the wilderness with no real objectives in mind.

Of course, I had to Google the differences between restore and reset and as I read through the definitions it has more than confirmed this is the right road for me.

Restore: is to put back something to how it was before or return to an earlier good condition. This is exactly what I need for my health, sleep, exercise, routines and systems that once worked well.

Reset: is to start again after a period of rest or change ( in my case definitely change) so you are better able to deal with life or a situation. If I were a computer it would be putting myself back to the factory setting!

I see reset as an opportunity to shake off all those bad habits that I have acquired recently and begin new ones that are more aligned to a better, healthier, less stressed me. I need to take stock of my life and identify the changes that have happened over time that are really not helping me, and restore anything that has worked before.

It is about recapturing the essence of any period of my life that was balanced and worked well. Since we sold the cottage last year we have not got into any routine here at home, other than shopping on a Tuesday….and now we don’t even have my friend K to pick up anymore, but Tuesday is as good a day as any for us to continue doing our shopping on.

In 2010 I came across the book ‘Everything That I’ve Ever Done That Worked’ by Lesley Garner. It is a series of short essays where she documents everything in her life that she has found to work for her, especially in times of stress and trouble. It started me thinking back then of just such habits, routines, systems, attitudes and behaviours that have worked for me in the past and those that really didn’t.

Presently, I can name a few unhelpful habits I have developed that will be detrimental to my health and well being (perhaps not immediately, but certainly in the future), and I need to get myself on a new and better path.

As I have pondered over these two words I have come to the conclusion that many of the RE words are going to be utilised within the bounds of Restore and Reset.

Rest, reconnect, recharge, reflect, review, recycle, rearrange, return, revamp, recover, reduce, reflect, relax, renew, replenish, research, resist, return and revisit.

I need to do all these, and no doubt more, to improve my life and now is a good time to start.

So I am taking the opportunity this week to recover from all the pressures that Christmas brings with it – often nice pressure, but even the accumulation of nice pressure is stressful.

Recovery for me isn’t lying down on the sofa watching endless TV, but rather having a good potter around the house putting everything slowly back into place and making plans.

Along with recovery, I went shopping today to replenish the pantry, mainly of bread, milk and fresh fruit and veg that we needed, but not before making a menu plan – that is certainly on the ‘it works for me’ list.

I used my personal Nectar discount offers that are given for using scan shop – I had 10 reduced price items, nine of them are items we normally buy and wanted, which is good…but when did I ever buy an Aero chocolate mousse? Sometimes, these computer generated offers are far off the mark.

My personal Nectar points were good too, 110 bonus points (worth 55p) on organic leeks, and 90 bonus points (worth 45p) on large organic tomatoes, organic broccoli and varying points on twenty other items. If I had used them all I would have added £4.15 to my Nectar points spend total. There was also 3 x bonus points if I spent over £120 but I certainly wasn’t spending that much. DH has his own offers of Nectar savings and points. We tend to just buy anything that is on offer each week where we can, and if it is a very good offer we will stock up with 3- 6 items depending on how often we would buy the item and how often Sainsbury’s put them on offer. I find their offers are very cyclical and come around every 3 to 4 weeks on main items like butter, tea and coffee.

Once I have done a bit more sorting at home I will be in a position to attend to any returns and the recycling.

I know of one or two bloggers who will choose a new focus word for the year and I am always eager to see what that word will be, equally I like to hear of those plans or (dare I say it) resolutions for the new year that you might have.

Do excuse me now I am off to the local pantomime, Beauty and the Beast with the family…my Christmas treat. X

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creating Christmas * preparing…

Like many bloggers my Christmas preparations are in full swing and I find myself in mild panic.

Having started the initial preparations and made a note of all things Christmas in my notebook I am wondering if this will be the simple and stress free Christmas I am planning, hoping for after all.

But I am raring to go now….the Christmas spirit is quite infectious – all around decorations and lights to mark the season are appearing daily in our village.

I love the time spent preparing, decorating and gift-giving but I must admit it seems to get harder to fulfill everything on the list that I want to do. The reward at the end of spending time with my friends and family and keeping up those traditions…new ones that we have made and old ones that we love to continue, is well worth the ‘busyness’ beforehand.

As part of the big pre-Christmas clean up I was determined to finish cleaning the oven this week, it had taken a while with a number of interruptions – but now it is sparkling clean – a good refresh before I begin baking the cake and making the nutroast. Cleaning out the freezer will be next…it is frost free but needs a bit of a wipe down and sort out.

Usually, throughout November as part of my plans I start stocking up on all those basic items like toilet rolls, washing up liquid, matches, foil and other household bits and pieces so I don’t have to worry about them just before Christmas when I have other things on my mind; and really I just want to focus on the absorbing the lovely array of Christmas goodies in the shops rather than the necessities. 

My initial preparations for Christmas always begin with an inspiration notebook – clippings from magazines, ideas from pinterest and I keep a note of any local events we might go to.

I have booked the hairdresser, a visit to Santa (with grandchildren of course) and the pantomime, scheduled every known appointment, event, birthdays and inset days on my calendar and moved unecessary appointments into January and have made a note of the last posting dates.

I check in last year’s notebook for the page that tells me what didn’t work last year to avoid the same mistakes this year. I always try and persuade DH that leaving the outdoor lights until ‘later’ is not a good idea as often the weather can be quite bad, making it an unecessary battle with the elements whilst balancing on a pair of steps and putting up strings of lights in wet windy weather and then connecting it to the outdoor electric socket. I also make it a rule never to decorate or paint beyond October and not to make appointments, like the dentist, if it can wait until January. These kind of things eat up time during the last few weeks running up to Christmas.

Each year I like to plan to do something a little different. Something that is festive and allows us to take time out for a day or two. This year I booked the linocutting workshop (the results you will see in another post), and I am hoping to visit Mrs Gaskell’s house in Manchester where they are doing readings from Christmas poems and stories.

Once my cards are made or bought I keep a decorated Christmas box to put them in together with the list of people who I send them to and an updated address list and stamps. I can then write my cards in any free moments or whilst watching the TV. Updating the addresses is something I must do before I can print the labels. Finish making the cards is even more critical!

I like to assign a space for presents. If they end up scattered around the house I am likely to a) forget them or b) the grandchildren might happen upon them. I usually clear a shelf high up in my wardrobe where little eyes cannot see.

So that is me more or less prepared for getting through the next 24 days. I hope you will join me for my daily creating Christmas posts starting tomorrow. I will try to document my Christmas task of the day each day as I create our joyful Christmas – although I fully expect this might not go quite to plan!

Back very soon. X

dear diary ~ November…really….so soon?

I was just enjoying October too.

In October I felt like I had ample time to prepare for the upcoming event, which I think is OK to mention by name now and unlikely to offend.

I have one month to get a grip…. get organised, get baking, making, crafting…..go shopping and go shopping again for the items I dithered over, forgot or just couldn’t find.

I plan (in my mind at least) to get everything done in November so we have a calm, ordered December. I already know it won’t be – I don’t even know what we are doing or where we will be going this Christmas. Most of our family plans have to revolve around mum. In the years since her mobility is almost zero she has Christmas at my sister’s house (as she lives the closest to her) and most years the wider family of about eleven join her, but this makes it a big catering problem for her if we all descend.

With many of the family moving house or still to move or still to sort boxes from moving I am not sure what the Christmas arrangements might be. So until we know more I will turn my attentions to the things I want to make.

I have made a start. I bought a few crafting bits and pieces from Boyes at the weekend that I will might (possibly) turn into something for the Crisis charity craft stall in 3 weeks time. I picked up this printed card for free out of their cardboard packaging recycle bin. It seemed too good to throw out, though the shelf stacker did think me odd asking if I could take it! I am sure it will be useful for something.

Now Halloween is out of the way I can really concentrate on all the ideas I have had for making cards and gifts for Christmas, though the extent of my ideas will be more than I have time to make them.

Trick or Treat night went down well – I made some little treat bags to hand out to the early birds and thankfully we had just handed out the last of them before we had to rush off to see the murder mystery play I had booked for at a local village hall – A Prescription for Murder. The play was excellent and we were kept guessing all the way through to the end. Of course we knew there would be a twist but you never quite know what.

The pumpkins and lanterns are all put away now for next year and everywhere the poppies are appearing. We were in Yarm on Saturday seeing my mum and the local knitters have excelled with lamposts and bollards covered in wonderful red poppies.

It was a beautiful dry autumn day and the sun shone (an added bonus) and always helpful when we have to push mum in the wheelchair to the park. She had her usual sandwich, chocolate muffin and cappuccino…her appetite is good for her age, she can eat more than I do. On each visit we try and solve a problem for her, the bedside lamp needed replacing recently, then the control for the electric blanket and this time it was the ‘glow’ bulbs in the electric fire that had gone. She was adamant that the fire was not on because there was no glow and I could not persuade her otherwise. Thankfully, we were able to get replacement bulbs in Yarm and fitted them for her before we left. I wonder what will need sorting next time!

This all may be a bit of a waffle tonight, it has been a full on few days with a few late nights, (tonight being one of them) when I almost turn into a pumpkin myself.

Back soon, have a good week and thank you for all your comments on the previous posts- I love to have a little chat with you. x